Once invites go out, please RSVP by May 12th, 2025. 💌 That being said, we understand that life happens so if you need to change your RSVP after that date please email or text us directly.

Cocktail or semi-formal, ties not required. A step below formal and often used interchangeably with semi-formal, cocktail attire is all about serving looks. Think of this as your opportunity to buy a new outfit or wear that look you never get to wear.

Our ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner and reception will be held indoors at The Realm right here in Tacoma! There is AC as well as a small outdoor patio at the venue.

There is plenty of parking across the street from The Realm*, as well as on the side of the building. Otherwise, The Realm is easily accessible via Uber or Lyft! *All venue parking is open so please lock any valuables in your trunk.

We have listed some of our favorite hotel and Airbnb options under the “Where to Stay” tab of our website. All hotels listed are ~15 minutes from the venue. We encourage our guests to book early so that you can arrive and relax into the magic of the PNW summer!

All plus ones will be noted on the formal invitation. Please reach out to Thane or Dana if you have any questions.

While we adore your kids, we are giving the kids a night off. And the parents a night to party! Seriously though, we love your little one(s) but this is a night for adults.

It’s a Tacoma Love Fest! 🌸🌝 We can’t wait to celebrate our love and big day with this sweet community. Thank you all!